Choosing a Guardian for your Children

One of the toughest decisions that I find people have is choosing who to be a guardian for their children. And because they can’t decide who to be the guardian for their kids, they put off naming someone or even put off doing their whole estate plan. 

A guardian is the person or people (if you name a couple) responsible for your kids’ physical, emotional and spiritual well-being. If you name a couple and one of the spouses pass away, ask yourself whether the surviving guardian spouse can care for your child alone or would you want to go to your next choice for a guardian. 

When nominating a guardian for your child, consider:

• Their parenting philosophy and if they will raise your kid with your values
• Their relationship with your child
• Age
• Location
• Personal Values
• Religion
• Discipline Style
•  Whether they can take up this huge responsibility of caring for the physical, emotional and spiritual needs of your kids

If this is still difficult for you, keep in mind that the other alternative is a Judge making the decision for you and who doesn't know you and your circumstances. ​

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